Successful relationships start with us. After
making a so called ‘mistake’ we tell ourselves, ‘never
again’, only to find ourselves repeating a different version
of the same ‘never again’.
Why does this happen, despite our best intentions?
Early childhood beliefs about ourselves stay with us into adult hood. Many
of us are unaware that we even have them. These beliefs may come from some thing
that a parent, teacher, other adult or friend told us, many beliefs are cultural,
religious, and political or they may quite simply be the misunderstanding of
a young child.
Think about it these false beliefs you held as a young child could be
holding you back as an adult you are capable of really becoming right now!
We bring into our relationships our ‘baggage’ from the past. Beliefs
and values we have picked up from others –they may not apply to our lives
or serve us now. It is time to leave useless baggage behind.
Many of us do not really know who we are and what we really believe in,
because we have failed to ask ourselves some tough questions.
This is your opportunity to rearrange your old ‘baggage’ and
create useful ‘luggage’ to bring to your relationships. Take
out what holds you back and replace it with powerful insights into yourself,
who you are and what makes you uniquely you. With a clean, well arranged luggage
compartment filled with useful personal tools you are ready to take on the world.
- Learn and understand how you communicate best and how others
communicate with you
- Remove old ‘false’ beliefs about yourself and
replace them with the infinite possibilities of who you really
are
- Understand what makes you feel loved and why. Learn how to
recognise what helps other feel loved as well.
- Feel confident in expressing your needs whilst respecting
the needs of others
- Learn the importance of personal boundaries in every relationship
at home and work
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